Everyone keeps asking, “So wait.. are you single?” What does single mean? Does single just mean that you can have meaningless hook ups with whoever you want because no one has claim to tell you not to? Does single mean that your heart doesn’t belong to anyone and that you’re free and open to finding someone to be with?
Why do we have these labels; single or taken? Everyone is their own responsible human being, and they can decide for themselves what is or isn’t right for them. Society doesn’t need to provide that label.
Am I able to complain if we don’t talk for days? No because we’re not together. Do I want to find someone else to be with? No, because I know how I feel when I’m with you and I can’t imagine finding someone who makes me happier.
So people can ask their questions and I can just say no comment. Because “are you single” does not have a simple yes or no answer in my head.